I know it's an odd question, but have you ever heard of crab mentality? Once a single crab crawls into a bucket or cage, others see it inside and start to join in. As more and more pile in, some try to escape and that's where things get interesting. Once they're in, its nearly impossible to climb out. The others will start grabbing them and pulling them back in, sometimes injuring them in the process. The same thing happens with us humans at times. Others will make bad decisions and while it may seem cool to join them at first, once you're in and realize that cage leads to an undesirable conclusion, it can be hard to get back out. While it may suck to be an Outsider at first, I think we can all agree that being the crab on the outside of a boiling pot of water is the better situation.