My son and daughter-in-law lost their little boy (my grandson), age 10, to pneumonia unexpectedly two years ago. It hit us all very hard. His mother had been his primary caretaker from birth. He was special needs. She said multiple times after his death that she wanted to be with him. The hard part was that they had two beautiful girls who were missing their mom. I found Zox- One Day at a time. I wear one and my daughter-in-law wears hers. We have come through so much (He died on my birthday). The girls are thriving and we love them very much. One day at a time.